Conversations with myself: What do you need to forgive yourself for?

 Forgiveness has been difficult for me. It’s easy to forgive the things that don’t rearrange your life or add or take away value, its harder to forgive that that weighs on the heart. I guess Ive been so focused on trying to forgive the wrongs of others that I forget to remind myself what that forgiveness looks like for me.

I forgive myself for selling myself short 

I forgive you for not believing your talents 

I forgive you for negotiating your value 

I forgive you for lingering in hurt 

I forgive you for not allowing yourself to be loved properly 

I forgive your for not loving properly 

I forgive you for being angry 

I forgive you for your actions in depression 

I forgive you for your lack of love 


I free you, myself, from hurt, pain and sadness, I free you from limitations and not moving in love. I free you from the bare minimum. You deserve more, in this life and the next, I free you from accepting less. 

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